Finding the Right mentor: The Role of Guidance in Doula Success

No one starts their doula journey knowing all the answers. That’s where mentors come in. A great mentor can provide guidance, support, and the confidence boost you need to thrive in your career. But how do you find the right mentor, and what can you expect from that relationship? Let’s explore.

1. Look for Experience and Alignment

A mentor with years of experience brings invaluable insights, but it’s also important to find someone whose values and approach align with yours. Do they specialize in the type of doula work you’re passionate about? Do their communication style and teaching methods resonate with you?

2. Join Doula Communities

Mentorship opportunities often arise in doula networks and communities. Whether it’s a local meetup, an online forum, or a professional organization, connecting with others in the field increases your chances of finding the right mentor.

3. Be Clear About Your Goals

When reaching out to a potential mentor, be specific about what you’re looking for. Are you hoping for help navigating your first births, advice on running a business, or guidance on work-life balance? Clear communication helps set the tone for a productive mentorship.

4. Embrace a Two-Way Relationship

Mentorship isn’t just about receiving—it’s also about giving. Show your appreciation by being respectful of their time, staying open to feedback, and sharing your own unique perspectives. A strong mentor-mentee relationship is mutually enriching.

5. Don’t Be Afraid to Move On

Not every mentorship is a perfect fit, and that’s okay. If you find that a particular relationship isn’t meeting your needs, it’s perfectly fine to seek guidance elsewhere. Your growth as a doula is what matters most.

Finding the right mentor can be a game-changer for your career. They’ll be your cheerleader, your sounding board, and your guide as you navigate the beautiful, challenging world of doula work.

xo, Jenn and Tiara